TRY NOT TO JUDGE PEOPLE'S PRESENT LIFE STATE BECAUSE THEY ACT WEIRD,YOU MAY CERTAINLY NOT KNOW THEIR WHOLE STORY...Everyone has a past that will always tell on their present.
When people act in ways you don't understand,try to manage them (though we all know it's not easy), some of them are still very much in the cage of their past experiences even if they think they are free from it. It's hurt how that some heart breaking experiences may take FOREVER to finally leave a fellow's mind,and as long as it stays,IT CONSTANTLY CAUSES HAVOC ALL THE WAY.
Some of us have pasts we aren't proud of, pasts that break our heart every time they flip in, pasts that cloud our mind with sad emotions anytime they appear, pasts that make the possibility of enjoying the future slim, pasts that make us feel unease and unsetteled, THE ONLY WAY OUT IS ASKING GOD FOR FORGIVENESS AND AT THE SAME TIME TRY FORGIVE YOURSELF. MOST ESPECIALLY, IF RESTITUTION CAN BE DONE, IT WILL QUICKEN YOUR HEALING PROCESS. ON A CONTRARY, LET GO IF YOU ARE STILL HOLDING ON TO SOMETHING YOU HAVE LOOSED IN TIME PAST;believe God to bless you with something better than that which you have loosed.
Don't ASSUME you know all about a fellow... THERE'S ALWAYS A DARK SIDE OF EVERY HUMAN;the side that even the fellow don't know about him/herself and will NEVER know except via REVELATION.
If you are to go into any relationship, be SURE YOU ARE READY TO ACCEPT THE FELLOW'S PAST, else it may hunt and hurt you as the years go by... if you can't accept their past, kindly let go of them to avoid future catastrophe.
Love is in your PATIENCE, ability to TRUST even in all doubt, willingness to SHOW CARE despite your SADNESS and ASSURE life even in DEATH...LOVE.🥰